How you can use pace and pause to reinforce the message that you want to communicate orally?

It may not seem like it, but pauses can be just as important to your innovative presentations as the words you are saying. The English poet, writer, and novelist Rudyard Kipling aptly said, “By your silence, ye shall speak.” And as classical pianist Artur Schnabel profoundly noted, “I don’t think I handle the notes much differently from other pianists.

But the pauses between the notes — ah, there is where the artistry lies!” Using pauses effectively and dramatically in your presentations reflects your speaking artistry and eloquence.

The main reasons to use pauses are for variety, understanding, and emphasis. A pause is a form of oral punctuation that can help your audience reflect on what you just said. In a way, sudden silence (especially if you’ve been using a quickened rate of speech) has the same effect as a sudden loud noise. It alerts your audience and makes them attentive to what you say next.

When using a pause for emphasis, you want to focus audience attention on your most important pieces of information.

Pauses regulate the rhythm of your speech like that of a natural conversation. They also help you collect your thoughts before moving onto the next piece of information.

Determine when and how long a pause should be to enhance your presentation. Typical pauses last one to two seconds; dramatic, extended pauses last as long as four to six seconds.

Although these commonly termed pregnant pauses may seem unnatural for you and uncomfortable for your audience, the longer theatrical-style pauses — done at strategic times in your presentation — can have a very strong impact. They are often used to give people time to consider the paramount consequences of your statement.

Keep in mind that too many long pauses or too many pauses in general can make your presentation choppy.

Consider using a pause either before or after the following types of content:

  • Key points and critical messages

  • Vital facts, statistics, or other shocking information

  • Important quotations

  • A rhetorical or thought-provoking question

  • Key names, dates, events, or titles

  • Essential benefits of your product, service, proposal, plan, or program

  • During the buildup of suspenseful parts of your story

  • Impact and consequences of problems or situations your audience is facing

Proper use of pauses can prevent sentence run-on, which is going from sentence to sentence without stopping. An attendee in our training session called it “a motor mouth without a brake.”

If you enumerate points, using a pause in between can help an audience absorb each one. When you use pauses, make sure that you apply them deliberately and cleanly. You don’t want to give your audience the impression that you’re repeatedly groping for words or hesitating, which can come across as being nervous or unprepared.

You want to be articulate, but don’t be too deliberate in terms of pausing frequently between words, so that your pace, combined with a slow, even rate of speech, becomes either frustrating or sleep-inducing.

To add extra punch to your pause, slow down your speech rate and increase your speech volume just before you pause. While you are pausing for several seconds, use good eye contact around the room to reinforce what you said. You can use pause and repetition of your point for a dramatic effect. Raise your volume in steps as you repeat each point for increasing emphasis.

The acclaimed British Shakespearean stage actor Ralph Richardson had this insight, “The most precious things in speech are pauses.” Consummate presenters, those who have learned the power of perfectly timed silence, know the value and truth of that. As you watch good movies, television dramas, and plays, for example, see how the seasoned professionals use pauses. You’ll be impressed and you can adopt some of those refined techniques.

Avoid using fillers like uh, okay, uhm, and you know instead of intended pauses. Practice and concentrate on finishing each sentence without a filler, and you’ll soon rid yourself of that bad speaking habit.


January 02, 2018 - Dom Barnard

A simple pause is one of the most versatile tools in your public speaking toolbox. Yet very few people perform it well.

A pause, if used correctly, can add a great deal to your presentation or speech. Here are 10 ways you can use a pause effectively.

  1. Add emphasis to key points - a pause before, during or after you say something you wish to emphasise can be a powerful verbal tool in a presentation. When preparing your speech, make a note of the important phrases and plan pauses around them. Try and spread these throughout your presentation and ensure you practice so you're not trying them on the fly. Don't be afraid to pause for up to 3 seconds and remember time seems to pass quicker when you are on stage.
  2. Indicate a change in tone or topic - pausing between two different parts of your talk can tell the audience something new is starting. You can also do this after an introduction or before a conclusion to help the audience understand the progression through your speech.
  3. Make sentences clear - a brief pause every time your script has a comma between sections in a list, and a longer pause when there's a hard stop to a sentence, will slow you down and let the audience hear what you are saying. It also gives them time to process the information, particularly useful if your speech is on a complex topic or if the audience's native language isn't the same as your presentation.
  4. Recall what you want to say - a pause lets you do this without the audience knowing or you having to apologies for forgetting what to say next, breaking you're audience's concentration.
  5. Replace a filler or hesitation word - there is nothing wrong with the occasional hesitation word, as long as it's not used too frequently. If you find yourself overusing a certain word (common words include 'like', 'and', 'so') during your preparation, try a pause and a mental, not verbal, um. Recording your voice while practicing, using either a mobile phone voice recorder or even virtual reality, will help you identify your filler words.
  6. Distribute eye contact - this again adds emphasis to the point you have, or are just about to, make. If the audience is large, spend 1-2 seconds giving eye contact to several different areas of the audience before continuing. This helps keep the audience engaged and feel involved in the presentation.
  7. Let the applause finish - if your speaking at a large venue, you'll most likely be applauded when you come on the stage. Make sure you pause long enough for the applause to finish – particularly if the event is being recorded, such as at a TED talk. This ensures clapping won't down out your important opening line.
  8. Wait for the audience to stop laughing - if you've told a joke and its gone down well (not always the case!), a pause lets the audience calm down before you carry on with your speech. Comedians are of course very good at this, usually waiting a couple of seconds after the applause has finished to build suspense for the next section.
  9. Let others talk - if you're having a conversation at a networking event, negotiation, or even giving a sales pitch, make sure you pause regularly to give the other person a chance to ask questions about the topic or to clarify what you have said. This way, you'll find out what the other person requires / wants / interests are and these can guide the conversation to a mutually positive outcome. Read more on active listening and exercises to improve your skills in this area.
  10. Think of a response to a question - there's a formula to answering questions: Listen, understand (this is the pause), answer. The pause allows you to hear the complete question and gives you time to think of a suitable answer. You don't want to be interrupting the question and giving an incorrect answer – this can be highly embarrassing.

Watch this short video by Brian Tracy on the power of the pause while speaking.

How can you use pace and pause to reinforce your message?

Use the pause to set the right pace for your speech. Control your breathing with pauses and stay in control as a result. Add special impact to your words with a pause. Because it slows you down and adds emphasis.

How can pace affect or support the meaning of your communication?

Your pace affects your audience's ability to follow what you are saying. If you speak too quickly for too long, your audience is going to have a problem following what you are saying. This is why you should always be mindful of your audience when adjusting your pace of talking.

What is pacing and pausing?

At the start, deliberately slow the pace, and pause (breathed) before you speak. As you commence, those listening are processing all sorts of information about your clothes, shoes, hair etc. They also need to settle into the task of listening. Breathe-in the audience before speaking.

Why is pace of speech important in communication?

Pace: This is the speed at which you talk. If speech is too fast, then listeners will not have time to assimilate what is being said. It is also a good idea to vary the pace - quickening up at times and then slowing down – because this will help to maintain interest.